Connect to your body and discover your eroticism

Hi, I'm Vanina, a somatic sex and intimacy coach. I can help you connect to your eroticism through pleasure and play. Together, we can explore your erotic themes, learning to connect with your authentic desires without judgment. Using the wisdom of your breath, body, and imagination, you will learn to listen and follow your true erotic self.

 

Why Intimacy Coaching

Intimacy coaching gives you the tools to be in a relationship with yourself and others. It teaches you to be open and honest about your needs, boundaries, desires, and emotions, without blaming and shaming your partner. It also helps you deal with specific sexual problems you might be experiencing in your life, such as erectile dysfunction or painful intercourse.

What is the big deal of body-based coaching?

Body-based or somatic coaching prioritizes the body and its sensations and experiences over anything happening in your mind. This is not the usual talk therapy method; instead, it requires you to pay attention to anything happening in your body. I am with you throughout the process, guiding and connecting to your experience.

What do we do in a session?

We'll explore practices such as breathwork, authentic movement and relating, visualizations, self-touch and mutual touch (within our boundaries, you can read more about mine here) to help you tap into your needs and desires and experience your erotic self.

By working on emotional resilience, embodiment and communication skills you will unlock deeper levels of intimacy, and feel safer and true to yourself in relationships.

 

Some topics I work with

Erectile Dysfunction

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Painful Intercourse

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Low desire

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Shame around sex and eroticism

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Premature ejaculation

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Desire mapping for couples

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Relationship repair

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Erectile Dysfunction | Painful Intercourse | Low desire | Shame around sex and eroticism | Premature ejaculation | Desire mapping for couples | Relationship repair |

 

More About Me …

I focus on removing the shame from your erotic experience and bringing back the pleasure. And while doing this, I might as well change your perspective on what sex actually is. After almost a decade in New York, I spent a few years in Berlin, where I started sluttish.us - a project for sex education for adults. Later, I graduated the Somatica Institute in San Francisco for sex and relationship coaching. During COVID I moved back to my home cuntry Bulgaria, and now have an in-person practice there. I do see clients online as well.

 

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